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A Guide to Tackling Academic Pressure

In the fast-paced world of academia, students often find themselves grappling with the pressure to perform well in exams and meet the demands of a challenging curriculum. Stress can become a significant obstacle, hindering academic success and overall well-being. However, mastering stress is a skill that can make a significant difference in your ability to navigate the test curriculum successfully. In this blog, we will explore effective strategies to help you manage stress and ultimately excel in your studies.

Understanding Stress:
Before delving into strategies for managing stress, it’s crucial to understand what stress is and how it affects your body and mind. Stress is a natural response to challenges and demands, triggering the “fight or flight” response. While a certain amount of stress can be motivating, chronic stress can have detrimental effects on your physical and mental health. Recognizing the signs of stress is the first step towards mastering it.A Guide to Tackling Academic Pressure

Time Management:
One of the primary sources of stress for students is the feeling of being overwhelmed by the sheer volume of coursework and study materials. Effective time management is key to alleviating this stress. Create a realistic schedule that includes dedicated time for studying, breaks, and other activities. Prioritize tasks based on deadlines and importance, ensuring a balanced approach to your studies.

Break Down the Curriculum:
Rather than viewing the entire curriculum as an insurmountable mountain, break it down into smaller, manageable chunks. Focus on one topic or chapter at a time. This approach not only makes studying more digestible but also helps build a sense of accomplishment as you make progress through the material.

Develop Effective Study Techniques:
Not all study methods are created equal. Experiment with different techniques such as active recall, spaced repetition, and concept mapping to discover what works best for you. Using effective study methods enhances your understanding of the material, reducing the anxiety associated with the fear of the unknown.

Healthy Lifestyle Choices:
Your physical well-being has a direct impact on your ability to manage stress. Ensure you maintain a healthy lifestyle by getting regular exercise, eating nutritious meals, and prioritizing sufficient sleep. Physical activity, in particular, is known to reduce stress hormones and boost mood.

Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques:
Incorporate mindfulness and relaxation techniques into your daily routine. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, and yoga can help calm your mind and reduce stress levels. These practices are valuable tools for staying focused and composed during high-pressure study sessions and exams.

Mindfulness-Based CBT:
Combine mindfulness techniques with CBT strategies to enhance your ability to manage stress. Mindfulness involves staying present in the moment without judgment. Practice mindfulness meditation regularly to cultivate awareness and reduce the impact of stress on your overall well-being.

Seek Support:
Don’t hesitate to reach out for support when needed. Whether it’s discussing challenging topics with classmates, seeking guidance from teachers, or talking to friends and family, sharing your concerns can provide a fresh perspective and emotional support.

Cognitive Restructuring:
CBT emphasizes the importance of identifying and challenging negative thought patterns. When faced with academic stress, pay attention to any irrational or overly negative thoughts. Challenge these thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on facts and evidence. Replace negative thoughts with more balanced and realistic perspectives to reduce anxiety.

Behavioral Activation:
CBT encourages individuals to engage in positive and goal-directed behaviors. Break the cycle of stress by incorporating enjoyable and rewarding activities into your routine. These activities can serve as effective stress-relievers, providing a much-needed break from academic pressures.

Problem-Solving Skills:
CBT emphasizes the importance of developing effective problem-solving skills. Instead of dwelling on problems, approach them with a solution-oriented mindset. Break down academic challenges into manageable components and focus on finding practical solutions. This approach can empower you to address stressors proactively.

Graded Exposure:
For situations that cause significant stress, consider a graded exposure approach. Gradually expose yourself to the stressor in a controlled manner, allowing yourself to adapt and build resilience over time. This can be particularly useful when dealing with challenging subjects or exam anxiety.

Keep a stress journal to track your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors related to academic stress. Identify patterns and triggers, allowing you to implement targeted CBT strategies. Self-monitoring enhances self-awareness and provides valuable insights into areas that may require additional attention.

Mastering stress is an ongoing process that requires self-awareness and a commitment to adopting healthy habits. By incorporating these strategies into your daily routine, you’ll not only enhance your ability to tackle the test curriculum but also cultivate resilience that will serve you well throughout your academic journey. Remember, it’s not about eliminating stress entirely but learning to manage and leverage it in a way that propels you towards success.

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7 Ways To Stop Going Through The Motions

What is Trauma?

People may develop trauma when exposed to highly distressing situations, which can impact their emotional and cognitive well-being. Symptoms may include helplessness, anxiety, and avoidance of triggers that evoke event memories. In addition to psychological effects, trauma can lead to many physical health issues and persist for months or even years, depending on the individual’s experience.

It is essential to adequately address trauma to reduce its long-term impacts on emotional and cognitive well-being. Trauma can look different for everyone, so it is crucial to seek help from a licensed professional. So where do you start? That’s what we’re here for; keep reading to find out!

So, how do you know if you have trauma?

Realizing that you have trauma can be terrifying and overwhelming and leave you in disbelief. For others, it might seem like an obvious question to answer, but contrary to popular belief, it’s more complex than that. Some signs show up as those below: 

  • Being easily startled or frightened 
  • Always being on guard for danger 
  • Self-destructive behavior. Such as drinking too much or driving too fast
  • Trouble sleeping
  • Trouble concentrating 
  • Irritability, angry outbursts, or aggressive behavior 
  • Overwhelming guilt or shame 

*If you or a loved one may feel that any of these symptoms align with you, please speak with a Licensed therapist to further discuss your options. 

How does my trauma affect my relationships? 

Trauma can have many different effects on relationships. It can cause people to have a hard time trusting, make them distance themselves from people, and lead to them becoming anxious in social situations and overreacting to real or perceived threats. It can also lead to explosive out-of-proportion reactions and heightened relationship insecurity. People who have experienced trauma can also have difficulty managing emotions and may become easily overwhelmed, leading to poor communication and misunderstandings. Lastly, people who have experienced trauma may also be reluctant to share their feelings and can push away their loved ones, which may be worried about the trauma survivor’s well-being.

Trauma can reveal itself in many ways throughout your relationships; however, you must be able to define these moments when they happen so you can properly evaluate them and respond accordingly. 

Have you ever felt like a plastic bag floating through the wind, wanting to start again? Katy Perry said it best; honestly, these feelings can be surreal. In these moments, it’s essential to understand you are not a product of what has happened to you, but your response defines you. You are powerful, and with the proper support and team by you, you can start living life by your control. 

7  Steps To Moving Forward 


Now that we have gone through the definition of trauma, how to notice the symptoms in your own life, and how can this affect your relationships? Where do we go from here? 

Here are seven steps to stop going through the motions and live your life again. 

1. Awareness. 

It’s okay not to be okay (cliche, I know, but it’s true!); the sooner you realize this, the sooner you can have power over yourself and your life. 

2. Take control over your life. 

What does that mean? Choosing what to give your energy and time to can dictate the path of life you go down. Choosing to surround yourself with like-minded people, emotionally strong  

3. Find support within your community. 

Go to that yoga class your friend has been begging you to, and join a support group to connect with those who have struggled with similar battles. Getting involved with your community can create closeness with those around you and give you a sense of purpose in knowing you are not alone. 

4. Reach out for help; connecting with a mental health professional or support group can                 

help you work through your trauma. Talking to a therapist might help you gain insight into the emotions surrounding the trauma and help you process it, come to terms with it, and find ways to manage your distress. 

5.  Practice self-care.

 Self-care is an integral part of the healing process. Make time to do the things you enjoy, such as hobbies, listening to music, or spending time in nature. Eating nutritious meals and getting enough rest is vital for physical and mental health. 

6.  Seek emotional support. 

Talking about your trauma with people who understand your experience can be a powerful form of emotional support. Talk to people you trust, like close family members or friends, or talk to other survivors who may have had a similar experience. Connecting with those around you can help you feel less isolated and can help you process your experiences. 

7.  Express your emotions.

Staying silent about your trauma can prevent you from healing. Keeping it all inside can be overwhelming.

*If you or someone you know needs further assistance in navigating through trauma or life with help, contact one of our Licensed Professionals, and we will help guide you to take the first steps in becoming a better ‘you.’

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How Can I Connect Again After Facing a Sexual Trauma?

While all forms of trauma are damaging, a trauma that results from sexual violence impacts the body and mind uniquely. A main concern of survivors of sexual abuse is how to move on and connect with others in an intimate way without being triggered. Often, after a sexual assault, boundaries become confused and survivors either isolate themselves, in fear that they will be harmed again. Or at times, survivors could exhibit inappropriately sexualized behavior, crossing boundaries which should not be crossed, creating an unhealthy relationship.

Survivors of sexual violence may be physically or emotionally retraumatized when engaging in sex with a partner. Often, they do not want to discuss this detachment, or avoidance of intimacy with their partner, which can lead their partner to feel confused or rejected. This lack of communication, and difficulty feeling safe discussing emotions can cause obstacles in a survivor’s relationship and level of intimacy.

So how can a survivor move on after facing a sexual trauma? In my work as a clinical psychologist for almost 20 years as well as working as an expert witness with sexual assault survivors, I have helped many people cope with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after experiencing sexual trauma. The following are some ways that survivors can work on moving forward after experiencing trauma:

First, understand, in your head and in your heart, what happened was not your fault. Not any part of it.

In order for survivors to regain control over their relationships and their sex lives, they need to recognize that they are not to blame for any part of the trauma. This may be obvious to the outside person. But to the survivor, thoughts of shame and guilt are a constant concern as one doubts themselves and wonders “What if I did not go that night? Would this not have happened? Or What if I had run away or told him no, etc.”
In order to move forward, the survivor must absolve themselves of all guilt and shame and wrongdoing. It is not your fault.

Establishing Appropriate Boundaries is the Key to a Healthy Relationship 

When a person experiences a sexual trauma, boundaries in relationships are often confused. The survivor does not know who they can trust and their world can appear unsafe. The survivor can have difficulty knowing how much to share with a person and when to hold back. At times, survivors have experiences where they share their story and get judged, blamed, or rejected, causing them to further retreat and socially isolate. Survivors can develop narratives such as “The world is not safe.” “I cannot trust anyone.” 

In order for survivors to heal, it is important for them to feel safe enough to not only communicate their story to their partner, but also to express when they are feeling insecure, anxious, or need a break. Their partner will help give them the space that they need to create appropriate boundaries, feel that they are heard, and go at the pace that they need, in order to form a trusting bond which will allow for communication and intimacy to occur.

Learn What it is Like to Feel Pleasure Again

The first step for a survivor in terms of intimacy, is to be able to experience sex without having flashbacks or thinking about the trauma. The hope and goal is that the survivor will get to the point where he/she will be able to be mindful, in the moment, focusing on feeling pleasure as well as giving pleasure to the person that they love. 

At times, survivors get to an in-between stage where they can experience sex without having flashbacks, or intrusive thoughts, but have difficulty feeling passion or pleasure. They can feel safe in their mind, but are just going through the motions and are giving pleasure to be a good partner. But their own pleasure is missing. Through therapy, the survivor can explore narratives, thoughts and feelings, while re-learning little by little what it feels like to feel pleasure again.

If you experienced a sexual trauma and are exhibiting symptoms, know that you are not alone. There is hope and light beyond your current state of mind. 

We can help you get through this difficult time. Contact Us at https://applepsychological.janeapp.com/ or call us at 917-526-0766 . An experienced counselor specializing in Trauma Therapy can help.